If you are experiencing intense distress or feel unsafe, we encourage you to reach out to professional support right away:
• 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (U.S.) – Call or text 988
• Crisis Text Line – Text HOME to 741741
• Emergency Services – Call 911 if you are in immediate danger
If you are outside the U.S., local crisis services can be found at your country’s health services website.
Seattle Widow Resources: https://www.seattlewidowresources.com/
This webpage is a great resource for local grief support groups, grief counseling, families with children (including local camps), immediate emotional & financial support, and much more.
Join Our Table. We are a social community for those whose +1 is permanently unavailable. Come connect with others who truly get it. We’re here for friendship, shared adventures, & compassionate community. We generally meet in the South Seattle area. Join our Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/JoinOurTableWidows email: joinourtablewidows@gmail.com)
Club Wid - Seattle. A social club that offers community and connection for Gen X and younger widows and widowers (born after 1965) who are one year past the death of their person. Frequent social activities, conversation, and new friends who "get it." https://clubwidseattle.wordpress.com
SSI (Soaring Spirits International) Regional Groups (2) - SW Seattle and N Seattle. These Soaring Spirits groups offer casual in-person and virtual gatherings focused on community, conversation, and connection. https://soaringspirits.org/event-regions/ or see the Join Our Table Facebook Group Events Tab for announcements.
Not Another Support Group (for men only) by Brian Hartzman (Grief Counseling and Wellness Coaching). Free social gathering for widowers to hang out and create new friendships and community with men who have experienced a significant loss. Last Tuesday of the Month. https://www.brianhartzman.com/nasg
Modern Widows Club - Seattle: Women Only. The Seattle group is no longer listed on their webpage. There is a legacy group of members who still meet sometimes.
Empowers widows to lean into life, build resilience, and make a positive difference in society. Modern Widows Club is designed to create a safe and private environment for widows to lean into life together through the journey.
The Healing Center (Seattle) - 206.523.1206 Website: https://healingcenterseattle.org/
Bereavement support groups for individuals, children, and families. Occasional social activities and newsletter. An intake interview is required. No individual counseling is available. Sessions are facilitated by professional staff members. Donations are accepted but no one is turned away if they cannot pay. Additional special-focus groups include those who have lost a loved one to suicide, LGBTQ+ grievers, and widows/widowers over 60 years old.
Note: The Healing Center is accepting new clients. Now offering Somatic Therapy.
WICS - Widowed Information and Consultation Services (Multiple Locations) - 206.241.5650 Website: https://www.kcwics.org/about
Bereavement support groups for adult widowed persons. Sessions are facilitated by trained widowed volunteers. Telephone support with widowed volunteers. Occasional social activities such as a summer picnic (August 10, 2025) and an annual retreat in the local area (May-June 2025). As of July 2025, in-person meetings are held in Auburn, Renton, and Covington. Virtual (Zoom) meetings are offered weekly from Bellevue, and Covington offers a hybrid option (in-person and Zoom). Please call for specific meeting locations and times. Donations are accepted.
Spousal Loss Group (Greenwood) Website: https://www.phinneycenter.org/social-services/support-groups/
Have you lost a spouse or long-term partner due to their death? The Spousal Loss Grief Group can help. The focus of this group is to provide a supportive environment and practical assistance to anyone who is widowed, or has lost a long-term partner, during their adjustment to the loss and into their life as a single person. Wednesdays, 5:45-7:15 pm. Free. For more information, call Robin Thomas: 206-234-4647.
Safe Crossings Pediatric Grief Program. Individual & group support for grieving children/teens; in homes, schools, or virtually. Contact: 206.652.4723
Camp Erin. Weekend grief camp for kids age 6–17 plus ongoing resources. Contact: 206.749.7689 or https://www.providence.org/locations/wa/camp-erin-king
WidowedParent.org. Resource hub for grieving parents. widowedparent.org
P.S. I Love You (2007)
Short Summary: After her husband dies from a brain tumor, Holly receives letters he prepared before his death.
Emotional Intensity: Emotional but generally hopeful
Viewer Notes: Includes medical illness progression and romantic grief themes.
Loss Context: Brain tumor, prolonged illness, young spouse loss
Themes: Continuing bonds, identity rebuilding, hopeful healin
A Single Man (2009)
Short Summary: A professor struggles to find meaning after the sudden death of his longtime partner.
Emotional Intensity: Heavy and introspective
Viewer Notes: Includes depression and suicidal ideation themes.
Loss Context: Sudden partner death, LGBTQ+ relationship loss
Themes: Existential grief, identity collapse, meaning reconstruction
Spoiler Alert (2022)
Short Summary: A couple navigates cancer, caregiving, and anticipatory grief.
Emotional Intensity: Emotionally intense but tender
Viewer Notes: Depicts illness progression and end-of-life caregiving.
Loss Context: Cancer, prolonged illness, anticipatory grief, LGBTQ+ relationship
Themes: Caregiving, relationship devotion, anticipatory grief
Truly, Madly, Deeply (1990)
Short Summary: A grieving woman experiences visits from her deceased partner.
Emotional Intensity: Emotional but gentle
Viewer Notes: Uses fantasy elements to explore grief and release.
Loss Context: Sudden partner death
Themes: Continuing bonds, letting go, grief attachment
Supernova (2020)
Short Summary: A long-term couple takes a final road trip as one partner faces early dementia.
Emotional Intensity: Quiet but emotionally heavy
Viewer Notes: Includes cognitive decline and end-of-life themes.
Loss Context: Dementia, anticipatory grief, LGBTQ+ relationship
Themes: Relationship devotion, autonomy, anticipatory grief
Alice Doesn’t Live Here Anymore (1974)
Short Summary: A widow travels with her young son seeking independence and stability.
Emotional Intensity: Balanced with resilience and humor
Viewer Notes: Focuses on emotional and financial rebuilding.
Loss Context: Sudden spouse death, parenting after loss
Themes: Reinvention, independence, single parenting
Things We Lost in the Fire (2007)
Short Summary: A widow bonds with her late husband's troubled best friend.
Emotional Intensity: Heavy
Viewer Notes: Includes addiction and trauma-related grief.
Loss Context: Violent sudden death, trauma-related grief
Themes: Shared grief, chosen family, trauma recovery
Widow of Silence (2018)
Short Summary: A woman struggles to legally declare her missing husband dead.
Emotional Intensity: Emotionally serious and grounded
Viewer Notes: Explores ambiguous loss and social barriers.
Loss Context: Ambiguous death, missing spouse
Themes: Resilience, social injustice, ambiguous grief
The Meddler (2015)
Short Summary: A widow forms new relationships after relocating.
Emotional Intensity: Gentle and hopeful
Viewer Notes: Later-life widowhood and social rebuilding.
Loss Context: Later-life spouse loss
Themes: Community rebuilding, reinvention
The Widow of Saint-Pierre (2000)
Short Summary: A woman forms an emotional connection with a condemned prisoner.
Emotional Intensity: Emotionally thoughtful but moderate
Viewer Notes: Explores devotion and relational loss.
Loss Context: Relational loss themes within social conflict
Themes: Devotion, moral complexity
Love Life (2022)
Short Summary: A woman revisits past relationships after a family tragedy.
Emotional Intensity: Emotionally layered and reflective
Viewer Notes: Includes child loss themes.
Loss Context: Child loss, relational grief
Themes: Complicated grief, family restructuring
The Farewell Party (2014)
Short Summary: Residents help terminally ill friends control end-of-life choices.
Emotional Intensity: Balanced emotional tone with dark humor
Viewer Notes: Includes assisted dying themes.
Loss Context: Aging, terminal illness, anticipatory grief
Themes: Mortality acceptance, friendship, dignity
800 Words (2015–2018)
Short Summary: A columnist relocates with children after spouse death.
Emotional Intensity: Gentle and hopeful
Viewer Notes: Accessible for hopeful rebuilding narratives.
Loss Context: Sudden spouse death, parenting after loss
Themes: Family healing, community support
After Life (2019–2022)
Short Summary: A widower struggles with overwhelming grief and anger.
Emotional Intensity: Heavy but often cathartic
Viewer Notes: Includes suicidal thoughts and strong language.
Loss Context: Cancer-related partner loss
Themes: Anger-focused grief, existential questioning
Sorry for Your Loss (2018–2019)
Short Summary: A young widow navigates identity collapse after sudden loss.
Emotional Intensity: Heavy and emotionally realistic
Viewer Notes: Highly realistic grief portrayal.
Loss Context: Sudden spouse death
Themes: Identity rebuilding, family grief systems
Northern Rescue (2019)
Short Summary: A father relocates children after his wife dies.
Emotional Intensity: Moderate with hopeful family focus
Viewer Notes: Highlights differences in family grief.
Loss Context: Sudden spouse death, parenting after loss
Themes: Family healing, sibling grief differences
The Big C (2010–2013)
Short Summary: A woman with terminal cancer reevaluates her life and legacy.
Emotional Intensity: Emotionally intense but includes humor
Viewer Notes: Depicts illness progression.
Loss Context: Cancer, terminal illness, anticipatory grief
Themes: Meaning-making, family transformation
The Widow (2019)
Short Summary: A woman searches for her husband believed dead in a plane crash.
Emotional Intensity: Suspenseful and emotionally tense
Viewer Notes: Explores psychological impact of uncertain loss.
Loss Context: Ambiguous death, missing spouse
Themes: Closure searching, denial, ambiguous grief
Jane the Virgin (Later Seasons)
Short Summary: Jane rebuilds parenting and romantic life after widowhood.
Emotional Intensity: Balanced emotional tone with warmth and humor
Viewer Notes: Grief appears within larger storyline.
Loss Context: Young spouse death, parenting after loss
Themes: Romantic rebuilding, identity reconstruction
Our House (1986–1988)
Short Summary: A widowed mother rebuilds family life with extended family support.
Emotional Intensity: Gentle and supportive
Viewer Notes: Focuses on long-term family adaptation.
Loss Context: Spouse death, parenting after loss
Themes: Family support systems, intergenerational healing
The Family Man (1990–1991)
Short Summary: A widowed fire captain raises four children.
Emotional Intensity: Light with emotional family themes
Viewer Notes: Explores practical parenting adjustments.
Loss Context: Spouse death, widowed fatherhood
Themes: Single parenting, family resilience
Do you know a film or series that thoughtfully explores partner loss or widowhood?
We welcome member suggestions as we continue expanding this resource.
We especially welcome suggestions that reflect diverse loss experiences, cultures, ages, and relationship types.
Submit recommendations using the form below or by emailing joinourtablewidows@gmail.com.
This curated list was developed in 2025 as part of Join Our Table’s grief-support resource library. It incorporates films referenced in The Wild Edge of Sorrow by Francis Weller and draws inspiration from grief media resources including Get Griefy Magazine, along with additional independent research and thematic annotation.
Compiled May 2025 • Updated periodically